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Mary Rosalene Shaffer

Female 1932 - 2014  (81 years)

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  • Name Mary Rosalene Shaffer 
    Born 24 Dec 1932  Kokomo, Howard County, Indiana Find all individuals with events at this location  [1
    Gender Female 
    Died 22 Jul 2014  Kokomo, Howard County, Indiana Find all individuals with events at this location  [2
    • Obituary

      Mary Rosalene McElfresh, 81, Kokomo, died Tuesday, July 22, 2014, at Reflections at Wellington. She was born December 24, 1932, in Kokomo, the daughter of the late Carl and Edna (Walker) Shaffer.  She married Wayne R. McElfresh June 22, 1952, at Main Street United Methodist Church, and he survives. 

      Mary Rosalene was a 1951 graduate of Kokomo High School.  She had worked at First National Bank before becoming a homemaker and raising her children while Wayne operated the family business.  In 1975, she resumed employment outside the home and worked at First Federal Savings and Loan until retiring in 1997. 

      She was an active member of St. Luke’s United Methodist Church where she sang in the choir for 50 years, was a member of the Builders Sunday School Class since 1958, was Director of Children’s Ministries, and a member of the Naomi Circle.  She was a member of Psi Iota Xi sorority for 60 years and helped in establishing the thrift shop. 

      She enjoyed being involved with her family, especially her children and grandchildren, and she attended most of their activities.  She was a basketball fan and could be found cheering for the Kokomo Wildkats and Duke Blue Devils.  A favorite hobby was window shopping, and she also loved her many hats that had been purchased over the years.

      Surviving, in addition to her husband, one son, Todd McElfresh of Kokomo; one daughter, Polly A. Amundson (A. Peter) of Westfield; grandchildren, Joseph McElfresh (Anne) of Charlestown, IN, Austin Amundson and Blake Amundson of Westfield; one sister-in-law, Helen Shaffer of Kokomo; two brothers-in-law, Leland McElfresh (Velma), Carl McElfresh and his significant other, Chris Ehman; several nieces and nephews. She was preceded in death by her parents; one brother, Bobby Shaffer; and an infant son.

      Funeral services will be at 1:00 p.m. Monday at St. Luke United Methodist Church, 700 East Southway Blvd. with Pastor Mitch Norwood officiating.  Burial will follow in Sunset Memory Garden Cemetery.  The family will receive friends from 4:00 until 8:00 p.m. Sunday at Shirley & Stout Funeral Home & Crematory, Lincoln Road Chapel, 1315 W. Lincoln Rd. and one hour prior to the service at the church. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to St. Luke UMC and/or Alzheimer’s Assn. and/or Psi Iota Xi Sorority to benefit the speech and hearing clinic.

      The family wishes to thank Samaritan Caregivers, the staff at Reflections at Wellington, and the staff at Southern Care Hospice for their care during Mary Rosalene’s illness
    Buried 28 Jul 2014  Kokomo, Howard County, Indiana Find all individuals with events at this location  [2
    Person ID I39269  Family
    Last Modified 3 Nov 2020 

    Father Carl R. Shaffer 
    Mother Edna Gertrude Walker 
    Family ID F14369  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart

    Family Wayne Richard McElfresh,   b. 13 Oct 1931, Kokomo, Howard County, Indiana Find all individuals with events at this location,   d. 5 Oct 2020, Kokomo, Howard County, Indiana Find all individuals with events at this location  (Age 88 years) 
    Married 22 Jun 1952  Howard County, Indiana Find all individuals with events at this location  [1
    McElfresh-Shaffer Marriage Record 1952
    McElfresh-Shaffer Marriage Record 1952
    Children 
     1. Todd Richard McElfresh,   b. 26 Nov 1963, Kokomo, Howard County, Indiana Find all individuals with events at this location,   d. 9 Aug 2014, Indianapolis, Marion County, Indiana Find all individuals with events at this location  (Age 50 years)
     2. Polly Ann McElfresh
    Last Modified 30 May 2024 
    Family ID F14368  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart

  • Event Map
    Link to Google MapsBorn - 24 Dec 1932 - Kokomo, Howard County, Indiana Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsMarried - 22 Jun 1952 - Howard County, Indiana Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsDied - 22 Jul 2014 - Kokomo, Howard County, Indiana Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsBuried - 28 Jul 2014 - Kokomo, Howard County, Indiana Link to Google Earth
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  • Photos
    Mary R. Shaffer (1932 - 2014)
    Mary R. Shaffer (1932 - 2014)

  • Sources 
    1. [S4248] Indiana Marriages, 1811-2007 - FamilySearch, 1 November 2020; McElfresh-Shaffer Marriage Record 1952.

    2. [S4342] Hasler & Stout Funeral Home, 3 November 2020; Mary Rosalene McElfresh obituary 2014.