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Nellie Marie McCuistion

Nellie Marie McCuistion

Female 1924 - 2006  (82 years)

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  • Name Nellie Marie McCuistion 
    Born 29 May 1924  La Junta, Colorado Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Gender Female 
    Died 6 Dec 2006  California Find all individuals with events at this location  [1
    Person ID I324  Family
    Last Modified 10 Mar 2022 

    Father James Emmett McCuistion,   b. 15 Dec 1899, Vernon, Barton County, Missouri Find all individuals with events at this location,   d. 19 Sep 1975, Pueblo, Colorado Find all individuals with events at this location  (Age 75 years) 
    Mother Nellie Inez Smith,   b. 11 Jul 1902, Fowler, Otero County, Colorado Find all individuals with events at this location,   d. 14 Jan 1997, Fowler, Otero County, Colorado Find all individuals with events at this location  (Age 94 years) 
    Married 17 Jun 1923  Fowler, Otero County, Colorado Find all individuals with events at this location  [2
    • Married by Rev. Lawrence W. Coffman at Fowler, Colorado.
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    James E. McCuistion children
    James E. McCuistion children
    (l-r) Jean Petrie, Dorothy Baker and J. H. McCuistion
    Family ID F38  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart

    Family Willis Stringham Tilson,   b. 10 Jun 1922, Plainfield, New Jersey Find all individuals with events at this location,   d. 18 Sep 1994, Burlingame, California Find all individuals with events at this location  (Age 72 years) 
    Married 1 May 1944  La Junta, Colorado Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Children 
     1. Phyllis Marie Tilson
     2. Patricia Eileen Tilson
    Last Modified 30 May 2024 
    Family ID F129  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart

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    Link to Google MapsBorn - 29 May 1924 - La Junta, Colorado Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsMarried - 1 May 1944 - La Junta, Colorado Link to Google Earth
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  • Sources 
    1. [S2841] Fowler Tribune, 14 January 2011; newspaper online; McCuistion family finds home and leaves long legacy in Fowler, Colo.
      By Andrea Flores
      Posted Jan 15, 2011 at 12:01 AM
      Updated Jan 15, 2011 at 1:02 PM 
        
      Since 1902, the McCuistion family has been in Fowler, leaving behind legacy after legacy of community involvement. This story looks at The McCuistion family is one of Fowler’s true pioneer families.
      Nellie (Smith) McCuistion was born in Fowler in 1902 and spent her entire life in Fowler.
      Nellie married James McCuistion, who came to Fowler from Missouri in 1919 at the age of 19.
      “We asked Grandma McCuistion why they decided to move to Fowler and she said they lived close enough to the Ozarks, people were intermarrying and she didn’t want to have a bunch of idiots on her hands,” Dorothy (McCuistion) Baker said.
      Nellie and James McCuistion made their home in Fowler and that is where each of their eight children were born and raised.
      Marie, the eldest passed away three years ago at the age of 82. Martha died of typhoid fever at 18 months, Dorothy is 82, Jean 80, J.H. 78, Verena 75, Willis 73 and Maxine 71.
      Dorothy, Jean and J.H. remain in Fowler. They have raised their families in Fowler and their children have continued the legacy by raising their children in Fowler.
      Back in the day, they never thought of their family as poor or needy, they had food to eat and lived in a two-story four-bedroom home.
      But by today’s standards, they would have been considered disadvantaged. They had no electricity until 1942 and no indoor plumbing until 1953.
      Each child was responsible for chores — Dorothy and Jean spent a lot of time helping in the kitchen and J.H. was busy doing outside chores.
      Mealtimes at the McCuistion house were spent as a family, even if you weren’t hungry, you were seated at the table, sharing your day’s happenings.
      On a typical school day, cows would be milked and the livestock watered before school. Jean was usually in the kitchen cooking breakfast, they would clean up and off to school they went.
      “Our parents were both schoolteachers, so they insisted that we get a good education, attend Sunday school and in later years saw to it we attended church,” Dorothy said.
      Their mother was a pianist, she played the piano for silent movies at the theatre in Fowler.
      She attempted to teach her children to play the piano, devoting 30-minutes to each child.
      According to the story I was told, Dorothy and J.H. were her worst students.
      Their father James was a carpenter and also farmed so for the McCuistion children summers were spent thinning and hoeing beets and picking crops.
      To earn money they would hire out to area farmers.
      “Mama would figure out how many rows were in a acre, that’s how we were paid, by how many rows we hoed and thinned, sometimes we would play and visit and wouldn’t earn enough money,” said Jean.
      “I never had any money, I remember my dad giving me a little roan calf to raise, he butchered it for the meat and gave me the hide to sell, I got $4 dollars for it,” J.H. said.
      “I remember one summer I made $26 dollars, I think I bought a new pair of shoes and a coat,” Jean said.
      “We would sit around the table, looking through the Montgomery Wards catalogue. We would pick out what we wanted or needed and that’s what we spent our summer earnings on.” recalled Jean.
      “The Montgomery Wards catalogue and the Fowler Tribune were what we had to read, after everyone had read it, it served another use in the outhouse,” J.H. said.
      “Back then money was shared amongst the family, if we had money saved and our parents needed it, they used it,” J.H. said.
      As for their most exciting childhood memories, Dorothy and Jean agreed, it was during the summer after hoeing was done everyone would bring a freezer of ice cream and they would have an ice cream social.
      As teenagers they had their own money and once a year they would go to the theater.
      They remembered seeing Shirley Temple movies and Gone With the Wind.
      “We lived those movies all year, we would act it out and talk about it all year long,” Dorothy remembered.
      “It would cost 15 cents to go to show, they would have Saturday night money nights,” J.H. remembered.
      Saturday night was the night they went to town to shop and once in awhile they would get a nickel to buy an ice cream bar or candy, back then you could get five or six piece of candy for a penny.
      That was a rare treat for the McCuistion family, they never had much of that and never expected it.
      “We took care of anything we had, dolls, clothes, etc., we appreciated everything we had and were taught to take care of it,” recalled Jean.
      Discipline was not uncommon, especially for J.H. “I think I got at least 10 spankings a day from mom and one a year from dad,” he recalled.
      “Our parents weren’t affectionate people, they never told us they loved us, but we knew they did,” J.H. said.
      “I remember the day I left for the Army, I gave my mom a hug and it was like hugging a chair,” J.H. recalled with a laugh.
      “Our parents were kind and generous people, I can remember them taking in gypsies, feeding them a warm meal, giving them work chopping wood, they never judged anyone, they accepted you for what you were,” Jean said.
      Holidays were held at the McCuistion home simply because they had the biggest house.
      It was a day of fun with cousins and neighbors if they didn’t have a place to go.
      The McCuistion family was one of three or four families in the Fowler community that weren’t Danish.
      “Mom played the piano, so we were always included at the Dane Hall activities, we all learned to dance at the Dane Hall. I remember an occasion in school when we were asked to raise our hand if we were Dane, I raised my hand, I thought I was a Dane,” Dorothy chuckled.
      Life was simple, spending time with family, kids entertaining themselves, there were no televisions to watch or video games to play. People worked hard for what they had and appreciated it, they helped each other and didn’t judge.
      My how things have changed.
      Published in Fowler Tribune

    2. [S886] McCuistion, James E.